150 would you rather questions for friends, family and couples. Play them one at a time below, or browse the full list.
Would you rather …
Explicit questions for couples. Are you 18 or older?
How to play
- Choose who is playing: All, Couples or Spicy 18+. Spicy questions are explicit and only for adult couples.
- Read the question out loud. Everyone picks an answer and explains why.
- Tap Next question. No question comes up twice until you have seen them all.
There are no right or wrong answers. The fun is in the reasons.
Funny would you rather questions
- Would you rather have a rewind button for your life or a pause button for your life?
- Would you rather sneeze glitter or hiccup soap bubbles?
- Would you rather sing everything you say or dance everywhere you walk?
- Would you rather only eat breakfast food for the rest of your life or never eat breakfast food again?
- Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal driver?
- Would you rather say out loud everything you think or only be able to whisper?
- Would you rather have a pet dinosaur the size of a cat or a cat the size of a dinosaur?
- Would you rather wear socks that are always a little wet or a shirt that is always a little too small?
- Would you rather live in a house made of candy or a house made of pillows?
- Would you rather have a laugh that sounds like a goat or a sneeze that sounds like a trumpet?
- Would you rather walk backwards everywhere you go or skip everywhere you go?
- Would you rather have your thoughts appear as subtitles above your head or a narrator describe everything you do?
- Would you rather find a forgotten $20 bill in every coat you own or never have to wait in line again?
- Would you rather have a theme song that plays whenever you enter a room or a laugh track that plays after every joke you make?
- Would you rather eat a whole lemon or drink a glass of pickle juice?
- Would you rather be able to talk with your pet for one day or swap bodies with your pet for one day?
- Would you rather always have a song stuck in your head or an itch you cannot reach?
- Would you rather have hair that changes color with your mood or eyes that glow when you get excited?
- Would you rather wear pajamas to every fancy event or your fanciest outfit to the gym?
- Would you rather have a pet penguin or a pet sloth?
- Would you rather only eat with chopsticks or a spoon?
- Would you rather get free pizza for life or ice cream for life?
- Would you rather be the funniest person in every room or the smartest person in every room?
- Would you rather have a clone that does your chores or a robot that cooks all your meals?
- Would you rather accidentally like a three-year-old photo on your crush's profile or send a voice message meant for your best friend to your boss?
- Would you rather always know the time without a clock or which way is north?
- Would you rather have a door that takes you anywhere but works only once a day or a phone that never runs out of battery?
- Would you rather be stuck in an elevator with your favorite celebrity or on a desert island with your best friend?
- Would you rather have every meal taste like your favorite food or be able to taste any food just by looking at it?
- Would you rather speak only in rhymes for a day or questions for a day?
- Would you rather live in a world without cheese or a world without chocolate?
- Would you rather have a dragon as a pet or be a dragon for a day?
- Would you rather commute on a giant tortoise or a very slow cloud?
- Would you rather be famous for your dance moves or your cooking?
- Would you rather wear a clown nose for a week or clown shoes for a week?
- Would you rather live next door to a bakery or a beach?
- Would you rather lose your phone for a week or your voice for a week?
- Would you rather have a parrot that repeats your secrets or a cat that judges every decision you make?
- Would you rather go to a party dressed as a banana or give a speech dressed as a hot dog?
- Would you rather have a bed that makes itself or a closet that picks your outfit every morning?
Deep would you rather questions
- Would you rather be loved by many people or truly understood by a few?
- Would you rather relive your best day once or forget your worst day forever?
- Would you rather have more free time or money?
- Would you rather know every truth even when it hurts or live happily without knowing some things?
- Would you rather be remembered for your kindness or your achievements?
- Would you rather have one true friend or twenty good friends?
- Would you rather always tell the truth or keep the peace?
- Would you rather live a short, exciting life or a long, quiet life?
- Would you rather change one thing about your past or see one thing about your future?
- Would you rather follow your heart or your head?
- Would you rather forgive everyone who has hurt you or be forgiven by everyone you have hurt?
- Would you rather have a job you love that pays little or a job you do not care about that pays a lot?
- Would you rather stay in your hometown forever or never be able to go back to it?
- Would you rather know what other people really think of you or never find out?
- Would you rather have a life full of adventure or a life full of comfort?
- Would you rather lose all your photos or all your messages?
- Would you rather be the best at one thing or good at everything?
- Would you rather always find the right words or know when to stay silent?
- Would you rather have a mentor who guides you or figure everything out on your own?
- Would you rather reach your biggest goal alone or half of it together with people you love?
- Would you rather live without the internet or your favorite hobby?
- Would you rather be brave in big moments or patient in small ones?
- Would you rather be admired or trusted?
- Would you rather have a clear plan for the next ten years or take life one day at a time?
- Would you rather understand everyone around you or be understood by everyone around you?
- Would you rather get one honest answer to any question or one wish that comes true?
- Would you rather read the minds of the people you love or have them read yours?
- Would you rather never feel embarrassed again or jealous again?
- Would you rather be really good at listening or explaining?
- Would you rather have a life where everyone knows your name or a life where only the right people do?
Hypothetical would you rather questions
- Would you rather speak every language in the world or be able to talk to animals?
- Would you rather explore the deep ocean or travel to outer space?
- Would you rather live without music or movies?
- Would you rather be able to fly or turn invisible whenever you want?
- Would you rather teleport anywhere or be in two places at once?
- Would you rather live 100 years in the past or the future?
- Would you rather have a photographic memory or be able to learn any skill in a week?
- Would you rather live in a castle in the mountains or a treehouse in the jungle?
- Would you rather meet your ancestors or your great-great-grandchildren?
- Would you rather be a famous actor or a famous scientist?
- Would you rather have super strength or speed?
- Would you rather master any instrument instantly or any sport instantly?
- Would you rather be able to breathe underwater or never need to sleep?
- Would you rather control the weather or your dreams?
- Would you rather explore a new planet alone or an uncharted island with friends?
- Would you rather swap lives with a famous person for a week or your best friend for a week?
- Would you rather live in the world of your favorite movie or the world of your favorite video game?
- Would you rather win an Olympic gold medal or an Oscar?
- Would you rather have a time machine that only goes back or a time machine that only goes forward?
- Would you rather talk to your younger self or your older self?
- Would you rather be able to heal any illness or end hunger worldwide?
- Would you rather own a private island or a private jet?
- Would you rather discover a new species or a lost city?
- Would you rather live on the moon or at the bottom of the sea?
- Would you rather have a robot as your best friend or a friendly ghost as your roommate?
- Would you rather shrink to the size of an ant whenever you want or grow to the size of a giraffe whenever you want?
- Would you rather be the first person to walk on Mars or the first person to talk to aliens?
- Would you rather never feel cold again or too hot again?
- Would you rather know every song ever written or be able to write a hit song in an hour?
- Would you rather live in a world without cars or a world without phones?
Would you rather questions for couples
- Would you rather plan a surprise date for your partner or be surprised by your partner?
- Would you rather slow dance with your partner in the kitchen or stargaze with your partner on a blanket?
- Would you rather get a handwritten love letter or a playlist made just for you?
- Would you rather spend a lazy Sunday at home together or go on a road trip together with no plan?
- Would you rather cook dinner together or have your partner cook for you?
- Would you rather hear "I love you" every day or see it in small gestures every day?
- Would you rather relive your first date or your first kiss?
- Would you rather travel the world together on a tight budget or stay home together with unlimited money?
- Would you rather have a date night every week or take one big trip together every year?
- Would you rather have your partner write you a poem or have your partner sing you a song?
- Would you rather fall asleep holding hands or wake up to breakfast in bed?
- Would you rather always know what your partner needs without asking or have your partner always know what you need?
- Would you rather spend a whole day together without phones or a day apart and tell each other everything at night?
- Would you rather wear matching bracelets or pajamas?
- Would you rather have a picnic in the park or a candlelit dinner at home?
- Would you rather get a surprise gift or a surprise trip?
- Would you rather live in a big city together or a small cottage in the countryside?
- Would you rather get a pet together or plant a garden together?
- Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
- Would you rather watch the sunrise together or the sunset together?
- Would you rather have a partner who remembers every little thing you say or a partner who always knows how to cheer you up?
- Would you rather go dancing together or take a cooking class together?
- Would you rather go back to the place you met every year or start a new tradition every year?
- Would you rather have fewer arguments but shallower talks or more arguments but deeper talks?
- Would you rather be the first to say "I'm sorry" or the first to say "I forgive you"?
- Would you rather have a love story worthy of a movie or a quiet love that lasts forever?
- Would you rather take a painting class together or a pottery class together?
- Would you rather know everything about your partner's past relationships or never hear about them?
- Would you rather build a blanket fort together on a rainy day or binge-watch a series together on a rainy day?
- Would you rather get flowers for no reason or a long hug for no reason?
- Would you rather share every dessert or always get your own?
- Would you rather have a partner who is funnier than you or a partner who is more romantic than you?
- Would you rather go on a double date or a date just for the two of you?
- Would you rather get a sweet voice message from your partner every morning or find a sticky note from your partner every evening?
- Would you rather plan your future together in detail or let your future surprise you?
- Would you rather go camping under the stars or stay in a fancy hotel?
- Would you rather have your partner surprise you at work or have your partner surprise you at home with your friends?
- Would you rather take silly photos together or make a scrapbook of your memories together?
- Would you rather kiss in the rain or on top of a mountain?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always early or a partner who is always five minutes late?
- Would you rather text each other all day or save everything for when you meet?
- Would you rather relive the moment you met or skip ahead to your next big milestone together?
- Would you rather celebrate every month you have been together or only your yearly anniversary?
- Would you rather go on breakfast dates or late-night dates?
- Would you rather learn a new language together or a new sport together?
- Would you rather let your partner choose your outfit for a day or let your partner choose your meals for a day?
- Would you rather never argue about chores again or money again?
- Would you rather have a slow morning together or a spontaneous night out together?
- Would you rather hear what you mean to your partner in a letter or hear it in a toast in front of your friends?
- Would you rather visit the place where your partner grew up or a place neither of you has ever been?
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Playing as a couple
Would you rather questions are an easy way to learn something new about each other, even after years together. Start with the funny ones and move on to the deep ones when you both feel like talking.
Taking turns with more and more personal questions can bring people closer. In a well-known study, pairs of strangers who spent 45 minutes answering such questions felt closer to each other afterwards than pairs who made small talk (Aron et al., 1997).
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