In the last article I wrote about the benefits of making her compliments and gave you 50 cute things to say to your girlfriend. But, words of affirmation are just one language of love, this time we are talking about acts of service and I will give you 10 ideas of cute things which you can do for your girlfriend.
However terse your replies may be or however tense the situations may be, your girlfriend is your life and there is no denying this fact. But sometimes men leave their love unexpressed. Now the psyche of a woman is entirely different from that of a male. A male accepts everything at the face value whereas a woman analyses everything critically. For example if you didn’t say “ I love you” before cutting the call, the cog wheels of her mind would begin to whirr and give her bizarre reasons when the case was that you simply forgot.
Your girl is the love of your life, why keep her dissatisfied when all she craves for is a sweet gesture of love from your side every now and then. Love needs expression, it is high time that you get this in your mind. Here are 10 things that you can do for your girlfriend to make her feel loved and special.
1. Massage Her
A body massage is the best way to comfort her. Your girlfriend will never ask you for that, but when you voluntarily give her a massage, she will feel the warm love that you have been hiding inside your heart. Especially when a woman is menstruating, she encounters severe back pain and cramps. During that time she is really in need of your touch.
2. A dinner by the candle’s light
This will be the most memorable day of her life. No girl will say “no” to a candlelight dinner. Just imagine, your beautiful angel sitting in front you and looking into your eyes while there is no one to observe you both. A perfect date! Melodious music and the glow of candle will bring out the best out of both of you. In fact, you can arrange a candle light dinner at home rather than going to an expensive restaurant. Your girl will love it!
3. A purr or a woof?
Most of the girls love pets. If your girlfriend is also a pet lover, surprise her and drive with her to a local animal shelter. If she always dreamed of having an own dog or cat, you could adopt one together. It’s much cheaper than a breeder and you are helping an animal in need. When she finds that gift she will be on cloud nine. However, you should be really sure about this, do some research on this topic because it’s a big decicion.
4. A Special Memory
Do you know the dream place that your lady has been planning to visit since years? Buddy, it’s time to find that out. Arrange the trip without informing her, of course, she will be thrilled. If you want to surprise her even more, write down some notes on what you love about her and how grateful you are for having her in your life. You don’t have to propose but this will be a very romantic experience so if you combine it with a cute gift like couple rings, a necklace or bracelet, she will think back to this moment whenever she wears your jewerly.
5. Handmade card
Have you ever thought of making a birthday or valentines day greeting card for her? Though it’s a small gift, it will be very special for her. Frame your thoughts and write a heart touching love poem on the card, in addition to this you can give her some small gifts. As you know, small is beautiful.
6. True Happiness
Is your girlfriend completely happy with you? Yes, she is, but there are certain things that she hates and she has been requesting you to eliminate them from your life. For example, it may be your addiction to alcohol or smoking habit. If she comes to know that you left your bad habit just to keep her happy, she will be the happiest person on earth.
7. I am the Chef!
Sometimes, she skips her breakfast due to the busy work schedule and you are aware of it. Rather than forcing her to make out time breakfast, send her some yummy burgers. You can even cook something for her. No doubt, it’s an opportunity to convey your love to her. Without telling a single word you will make her understand how much concern you have about her. This idea sounds interesting, right? Then try it!
8. An album from the heart
You and your girlfriend have spent many memorable moments together. And a photo album can capture those memories in a beautiful manner. Don’t worry, it will not cost you an arm and a leg! Collect the pictures that you clicked during your beach holidays, anniversary or Valentine’s Day, her birthday and all other lovely occasions. Most importantly, have some place for selfies. There are many pics that you have secretly clicked and never showed her, add them to the album too and gift it to her.
9. Old is Gold!
In the early days of one’s love life, guys are very romantic. They share love text with their girl and treat her like an angel. But as the relationship gets older, they begin to ignore such romantic things. This however doesn’t mean that they don’t love their girlfriend. For your girl, your each and every word is precious, she has preserved them in her diary to this day. So, start writing letter to her to welcome the second season of love!
10. That sweet gentle embrace
“I have learned that there is more power in a good strong hug than in a thousand meaningful words,” said Ann Hood, a well-known novelist. Your arms are a safe haven for her and she desires to be there often. So, don’t disappoint her. Whenever you meet her give her a hug and kiss her on her forehead. That makes her feel secure and it’s also a way to strengthen your bonding.
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